by Kelly Pelton (written 28 Nov 2020)
If you tolerate second-class treatment in the name of submission, my sisters, you are agreeing that God is partial; you're complicit instead of resist-ers who hold out a non-gender-based ideal of healthy love, of mutual respect. You do no one in the church a favor by being hesitant or circumspect. The timid hold back for fear they are wrong and thus deserving of the punitive; I've been there, intimidated by men who think abuse is their prerogative. Once you reject the punitive powers and embrace God's opinion of your worth, you'll gain a Spirit-inspired dignity: "female" is not a misfortune of birth. The daughters of God can articulate what's fair and loving in relationship; male and female is not a hierarchy but a divinely ordained partnership. Let's keep pushing prayerfully for equal treatment, daughters of the one holy King, fearless of inevitable pushback, sheltered by the Fortress to which we cling.