by Kelly Pelton (written 17 July 2022)
"I'll pass," they say, these women who walk away from so-called patriarchal God to find a fairer world outside the church's walls where giftedness expressed helps humankind. "I haven't thought about it," say the girls, intimidated by the preaching of men; young females have no confidence to question if scripture's being distorted due to sin. "Their roles are lesser, not their value," they lie, those Christians who make God out to be like man, those self-proclaimed intermediaries who speak for God a patriarchal plan. The scripture judges thoughts and attitudes, how we use it to subordinate, how we use it to confuse, to treat our sisters in the church as second-rate. Love does not deceive, discriminate, dishearten or devalue, or entice entire congregations to subjugate women all the while pretending to be nice. Love does not harm; it causes none to doubt God's goodness or the value of all souls. It never will claim equal worth of women while keeping them from filling equal roles.